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TY for the note on Nietzsche, I was unaware of his idea that forgiveness is a route to redemption.

“Only a love of wisdom, that high philosophical ideal, can best support the healthy combining of two separate wills (Kant) while also safeguarding identity and boundary-driven personhood through the demands of logical consistency.”

I concur. :)

The Stoic Epictetus famously helped clarify how love, guided by philosophy, can be a bridge between two individuals without harming one or the other. The goal is prohairesis (Greek: προαίρεσις) — moral intention within one's control unshaken by the other's reaction.

Properly, this is a kind of ethical praxis: a commitment to act not only with kindness, but with precision, without entangling that gift in obligation or exchange. The Stoic idea of prohairesis resonated with the Buddhist dāna (Sanskrit: दान; Pāli: दान) — generosity given without attachment. One gives for the benefit of the other, not to build moral capital; every act of giving is also an act of non-attachment — to ego, outcome, even to the gift itself.

In The Path of Purification (Visuddhimagga), Buddhaghosa describes dāna as the first of the ten pāramī (perfections) because it loosens the ego’s grasp. It can be wealth, time, food, or fearlessness (e.g., protection, comfort), and the highest form is the gift of truth (Dhamma-dāna). Christianity has a similar tenet: caritas sine gloria — love or charity without glory. (Confer Matthew 6:1–4.)

• Intention matters more than outcome.

• Virtue lies in acting without needing to control.

• Freedom comes when you master yourself, not others.

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